Dating a spiritually immature man
A man's spiritual leadership is not a matter of dictatorial power, but of firm and credible spiritual leadership and influence.
It's a dilemma, and it does seem unfair of God to restrict us to the few that are Christian in the real sense. In the end it distracts from the real meaning of Christian life.The disciplines of the Christian life, including prayer and serious Bible study, are among the means God uses to mold a boy into a man and to bring spiritual maturity into the life of one who is charged to lead a wife and family.This spiritual leadership is central to the Christian vision of marriage and family life.Trying to find someone with whom you click, who you find attractive and who you know loves the Lord - can be so difficult that staying Gods side of the fence can seem like too much to ask! Not to mention hours wasted barking up the wrong trees!- Should I ask that non- Christian guy out at work? Should we consider dating a non-Christian partner outside the church when one inside seems so elusive As ever The Holy Bible offers practical advice to real problems!When one is indifferent or weak in their stance here, temptation will be hard or impossible to resist so decide BEFOREHAND to do the right thing!
Is the person you're dating someone you'd like to marry?
Spiritual maturity is a mark of true Christian manhood, and a spiritually immature man is, in at least this crucial sense, spiritually just a boy. Personal maturity sufficient to be a responsible husband and father.
True masculinity is not a matter of exhibiting supposedly masculine characteristics devoid of the context of responsibility.
You can visit different churches but this is a very inefficient way to meet someone.
You're going to have to go for a couple of weeks before you get to know anyone and even then you may not end up in a position to approach the person you like. Church hopping is not a sin but it's not a good way to find a partner.
You could try traditional Christian dating agencies which is a great idea.