Dating an introverted woman
And after the experience of the gathering or party, be ready for your date to want to end the night." If you can be together at home or in a quiet environment, your introvert will thank you."Hanging out and not talking is the holy grail for introverts," adds Grace. "Commenting on body language and facial expressions will also help to connect with an introvert, says Rose Hanna, LMFT and professor of psychology at California State University.
Here are 5 things extroverts can consider when dating introverts (or hoping to): 1. After a lifetime of feeling like they were deeply flawed—and I recently received an email from a woman in her 70s—introverts are exuberant to learn that they’re just fine. For some, it’s a celebration and a venting of frustration and anger.Ever."Make sure that your bubbly, outgoing personality doesn't overshadow that of your date," says Florida-based author and psychotherapist Karen R. When the extroverted partner expresses her/his feelings, whether loving or angry, and the introverted partner remains silent, the extrovert is likely to interpret the silence as a lack of caring, of indifference, or of rejection.The extrovert might up the ante' at that point, pressing harder for a response of some kind, which is then likely to cause the introvert to retreat and delay even further.Another woman said that her husband refused to socialize with her, and while she didn’t mind socializing without him, she didn’t like doing it all the time, and found herself staying home more than she preferred.And I’ve heard from multiple guys trying to woo introverted women, and wondering how much chasing was necessary, or intrusive.From time to time, I receive despairing emails from extroverts about their relationships with introverts.
One woman turned an empty bedroom into a "man cave" for her introverted husband, who rewarded her by spending all his time there—and sometimes even sleeping there—leaving her alone and lonely.
"Groups of people, especially large ones, drain the energy from an introvert.
If you must attend an event with lots of people, keep it brief. Introverts appreciate it when you take the time to notice what they are silently communicating to you.
I spend my days helping these same introverted men attract women naturally, so I’m used to telling them how to better understand women.
It will be fun to flip it around a bit today and put these years of research to work for you!
If they’re a little slower to express themselves, or if their expression feels a bit more understated than you’re used to, understand that it doesn’t mean they’re not feeling. At that point, you’re giving off positive and relaxed vibes.